1. A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts.
2. A person whom one knows; an acquaintance.
3. A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; a comrade.
So what conclusion can you derive from here? its like all three formula have been given to you in a maths formula. Its just a matter of stating the obvious. why suffer from all the double-edged friendship blade?
Epiphany. If someone isn't any of the three. The solution is simple. "Friends" who bring unhappiness,sadness or even loneliness. Please. Were they even friends to begin with? They belong to the "People i dont need in our lives" box. They don't even deserve to use this very word.
Any relationship,starts two sided. When the sincerity of one side starts to wane,the other side has to give more to balance out the friendship. That law applies on maths equation,chemical ratios and even biological food chains. Simple as that. You give away more and you get so much less in return,you turn miserable. A gazillion questions start popping out in your brain :
"How could they do this to me?"
"What I could've done wrong?"
"I thought we were friends,what happened?"
The answer is simple. They just don't care anymore. If someone cares,they'll show it. If they dont show it after you do. It means either they're in a bad mood or they couldn't care less. It doesn't mean that you're a stuck up,unfriendly bastard. Its just that happiness is too big of a price to pay for all of that.
Being left behind is like getting stuck in a time-locked void. You recall all the sweet,sweet memories you had together,all the times you had. Those moments of serendipity leaves you nothing but vulnerable. Very much like a couples' break up without the romantic,mushy mushy stuff. Period. There's no point in thinking back,grinning like a Cheshire cat just to have reality punch you,shocking you to a revelation that all of that is GONE. i mean GONE. You move on. Then at that very moment you think you've gotten over it,you go back to square one again. No point. When it's GONE,it's REALLY GONE,i mean REALLY REALLY GONE. *FOR EMPHASIS*
So what conclusion can you derive from here? its like all three formula have been given to you in a maths formula. Its just a matter of stating the obvious. why suffer from all the double-edged friendship blade?
Epiphany. If someone isn't any of the three. The solution is simple. "Friends" who bring unhappiness,sadness or even loneliness. Please. Were they even friends to begin with? They belong to the "People i dont need in our lives" box. They don't even deserve to use this very word.
Any relationship,starts two sided. When the sincerity of one side starts to wane,the other side has to give more to balance out the friendship. That law applies on maths equation,chemical ratios and even biological food chains. Simple as that. You give away more and you get so much less in return,you turn miserable. A gazillion questions start popping out in your brain :
"How could they do this to me?"
"What I could've done wrong?"
"I thought we were friends,what happened?"
The answer is simple. They just don't care anymore. If someone cares,they'll show it. If they dont show it after you do. It means either they're in a bad mood or they couldn't care less. It doesn't mean that you're a stuck up,unfriendly bastard. Its just that happiness is too big of a price to pay for all of that.
Being left behind is like getting stuck in a time-locked void. You recall all the sweet,sweet memories you had together,all the times you had. Those moments of serendipity leaves you nothing but vulnerable. Very much like a couples' break up without the romantic,mushy mushy stuff. Period. There's no point in thinking back,grinning like a Cheshire cat just to have reality punch you,shocking you to a revelation that all of that is GONE. i mean GONE. You move on. Then at that very moment you think you've gotten over it,you go back to square one again. No point. When it's GONE,it's REALLY GONE,i mean REALLY REALLY GONE. *FOR EMPHASIS*
Stick it in your head and move on. No point being hard on yourself.
Like the old saying goes. People stab you once,but you stab yourself plenty more times.
Words are powerful. It can be awesome. but from a mouth of a total jackass,it can hurt very badly.
*Chris Medina - What Are Words*
Like the old saying goes. People stab you once,but you stab yourself plenty more times.
Words are powerful. It can be awesome. but from a mouth of a total jackass,it can hurt very badly.
*Chris Medina - What Are Words*
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